I have more or less the same opinion.
I think one or two shootout throughout the show, as the band is currently doing, is just fine. Once you have reached the final stage of grief, the only way ahead is looking forward. Constant tributes would loose a bit of their meaning, could break the mood of the shows, and could become uncomfortable. Personally, I'd prefer not to be reminded too often that Chester is no longer with us. That's how I feel about it, I understand others may view it differently.
On the other hand, for special occasions such as a birthdays, sure. I'd just prefer those tribute moments to remain rare and if the context calls for it.