Really?
Try to be in a relationship with the girl whom you really love and care about more than any girl you had loved previously. And that girl listens to mostly RnB and soft music, and doesn't like heavy music like Metal; and pumping, aggressive music like Gangsta Rap, both of which are the music that I only listen to.
You know what I did? I tried to listen to RnB and I like it! The music is so calming and emotional.