Dude, a LOT of your posts in regards to other peoples posts in the past are far from optimistic.
I'm not destroying hope, I'm giving my opinion that people are being unrealistic about songs like With You. I'm glad they played Blackout, honestly I'm happy for you - however if you look at my posts in regards to that, I said that bands don't always play what the soundcheck, not they WON'T play it.
I honestly thing it no longer matters what the setlist is. When I see the band, I am happy with anything they have to offer. I don't let it ruin my night because they didn't play APFMH or something. Just like me, you had fun at the show. You would have done no matter what the setlist, and I'm happy that you did.